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The moment you realise your life is yours that’s when you start living.

Let me repeat myself

The moment you realise your life is yours, that’s when you start living.

I’m learning this so my man can‼️‼️

I’m doing this so i can find a man that can‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️

I’m not wearing this because my man‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️

Girl is he doing anything so you can accept him ‼️‼️‼️

women over stretch themselves for male validation, and it will never make sense to me.

I remember someone always saying you need to learn how to cook for your man.

I told them hope he learns how to cook for me too and do house chores.

Because if he can’t, I don’t want him.

They go by saying , do this and that because of your man.

Your man won’t like tattoo

Your man won’t like when you have a certain hair cut.

A man won’t like this or that.

Got me thinking do I even own my life.

Everything revolves around this male species.

I don’t even own my life.

Ewwwww.

After so many introspection, I see why my relationships never work.

Because I never settle,

I demand just as much as they do , and they have never been able to match up.

If you can’t be that person for me why should I be that for you?

If you demand all those cooking cleaning, submission from me, why can’t you be that for me and more.

Imagine not having some basic life skills??

Will you submit to me????????

Will you cook for me?

Will you clean the house?

If you can’t , what use are you to me????

I can’t feel secure in you.

I can’t trust you with anything.

I also deserve the best, don’t you think?

I’m not allergic to good things you know?🤨.

Ladies raise that standarddddddddddd,

Do not for any reason not know what you want.

Always know it and stand ten toes on it.

I have been hated for knowing what I want, and to be honest , it just shows I’m doing right by me.